Todays blog entry is from fellow Dame Trina…..
These thoughts are in response to a 30 Day Challenge we are doing in which each Dame picks a personal goal to work towards for the month.
“Good morning ladies. I had a thought this morning that I thought I would share as we start this new 30 days. For those that I haven’t met yet, philosophy is oft my middle name…
With that said, let’s get our philosophy on:
I had another long 16 hour day yesterday at work that ended with a round of layoffs and more work added to my plate. As I was dressing after no sleep and knowing that today wouldn’t be any better, I was contemplating that oft stated line that when you begin a challenge, you will be met with obstacles to challenge you to make sure you really want it. I considered my obstacles from now and the past and it occurred to me that although they may be a different ride, they are in the same playground.
And that’s when it hit me, that line is not only bull but it leads to subconscious negative thinking that in itself is sabotaging! Try this exercise: imagine that there is a balloon on a string in front of you. Now reach out with both hands, grab the string and bring the balloon to you. Now repeat the exercise but imagine that it is a 1000 pound weight instead of a balloon. You can actually break a sweat and work every organ in the body with this simple exercise.
So how many other places do we add weights? By viewing these items as obstacles, I’m making this journey much more difficult including adding a silent negativity to myself that brings me down when I don’t realize it. Do we get on a scale and don’t feel good about ourselves unless we reach a specific weight?
There are usually reasons we are where we are and we need to overcome those to truly change; otherwise any change we manage to succeed in will not stick or it will manifest itself elsewhere. How easy will change be? Do we put weights there or balloons? It’s as hard as we choose it to be. We may miss one day but does this abort the journey? It’s not the goal.
Perhaps these things that come up in our life are not ‘obstacles’ at all, but are actually the very reasons that have put us where we are in the first place and they show up, not to have us prove we truly want this goal but so we can overcome them and grow! Someone may be saying, great she is finally going to deal with this crap, let me hand her the blocks so all she has to do is walk past them and be done! What a gift! We have everything we need to succeed right in front of us – outside obstacles and any inside stresses and fears and so on. This time I will not set myself up for failure with negative thinking, challenges or even unrealistic goals that are not for me. Let’s change our entire being for the better now. Do you have weights inside of you? Let’s make them balloons and let them fly off!
– Trina