Georgia With the Dames- Part 2

Continuation of SweetPeas’ s Adventures……

Georgia with the Dames (Sat.) – Part 2

At 9:45am we step foot on the trail and start our 1 mile climb up. I hadn’t hiked since the Shennies trip in early October so I was worried I’d fall behind. Luckily, my trail legs didn’t disappear! Joan and I hiked together for the rest of the day. She was kind enough to wait for me on top of the climbs and we would hike down the trail together. At the top of the first climb we caught up to Crystal and her dog Buddy and we all stopped to enjoy the view and take some photos. Crystal and Buddy were just out here for the day and it was Crystal’s first hike. She seemed to be doing really well. Buddy was loving it. She had her tail wagging the entire time and just raced up and down the trail. She would stop when she couldn’t see Crystal and wait for her, but as soon as she caught a glimpse of her mommy, she raced down the trail again. It was so cute. It made me miss my dogs. I learned that Joan was really into the plant life. It was actually pretty cool having someone point out things and teach me something. Like when we hiked by some bamboo plants, normally I would of just walked on by and not thought a second about it, but Joan schooled us on the fact that it was a bamboo native to only the GA mountains. See, I learned something! Joan’s from Oregon, but is a professor at University of GA, where she also does some genetic research. She would sometimes get off the trail to check out an interesting tree or flower. I kept wanting to give her the trail name “Dexter”, like that Hanna Barbera cartoon about the little red headed scientist in the white lab coat. I think the cartoon’s name is actually Dexter’s Labratory. Anyways, we continue on together and see the sign for the shelter. We were told there were some stellar views, so we dropped our packs and decide to hike the .3 miles up the nicely graded trail to check it out. We arrive and notice an open privy on the left and as I yell back to Joan and Crystal to check out the privy, it dawns on my that there’s a pair of boots peaking out from it. Oops! Seems as if we stumbled upon someone doing their business. We quickly look over the shelter, then head back to the view to give the fellow hiker some privacy.

It was a great view, I would highly recommend stopping at Tray Mountain shelter just to check out the view. As we get back to our packs, we see that most of the group has arrived as well as 2 Southbounders!! Buffalo and Eecreats (spelling?). I find out that Eecreats will be the first ITALIAN southbounder to finish the AT. You KNOW I had to ask him about my favorite country on the planet. hahah! He’s sort of a celebrity on the trail, at least that’s how we treated him. hahah! Picture 12 women just oohhing and ahhing over these two southbounders. They were loving it! Sunny offered to get their picture and we all clamored around them for the photo. OH, and I found out the dude in the privy was Rootbeer, another southbounder hiking with Eecreates and Buffalo. So after the photo op, Joan, Crystal, Buddy and I continue down the trail for a couple miles. We decide to have lunch at the top of one of the climbs, which looked to be about 1/2 up. Well, a mile later we were walking down into SWAG of the Blue Ridge Gap where we met some other hikers, one from England and one from Ireland. They were nice enough to take our picture at the SWAG sign 🙂 Well, you all know where there is a GAP, immediately after, is a climb. So we climb up some mountain and climb down into Sassafras Gap, where Joan and I decided to get water at a blue blazed spring. Little did I know I would need some repelling gear to climb steeply down .3 miles for some water. (The down really wasn’t that bad, it’s coming back up that I dread. And it’s especially bitter when the miles don’t count. hahaha!) So we left Crystal up with our packs and we rappelled down to the spring. It was actually a nice, clean, running water spring. Joan and I took turns pumping water thru the filter and finally climbed back up to our packs. When we got to the top, there was no sign of Crystal or Buddy. We think she just decided to finish up since she was just day hiking. So Joan and I continue into camp. We look at our watch and it was only 2:30pm when we arrived into Addison Gap.

We split up to pick some nice camp spots. I choose a couple of nice trees, set up my tarp, hang my hammock, and sit in it a while to relax my feet. About an hour later, in walks Sundai and Diana! They looked pretty worn out so Joan and I help them set up their tents. I realize that their backpacks weigh a ton and that’s why they were so wiped out. Around 4pm, Laura and Lynn walk in, followed by Maggie. The Dames are starting to trickle in. While everone is setting up their tents, Diana decides to pick up some logs/sticks for a campfire and Joan and I go off to hang a couple of ropes for bear bagging. She’s never done it before and it’s one of my least favorite camp chores to do, so… yeah. I take advantage of the situation and tell Joan she should practice. hhahah! Seriously, after she weighted down one end of the rope with some twigs, she had 2 bear bag ropes up in less then 10 minutes. It was so cute to see how excited she was to get it over the tree limb. We high fived after each successful toss and she had the biggest ear to ear grin. When we got back to the campsite Diana had a nice little fire going. I helped her stack the logs around to keep the fire going and to create some really good coals. By 5:pm, I was getting a bit worried about SHOE and her group. SHOE, as the leader of the trip, held up the rear and made sure everyone made it safely to camp. It was almost completely dark when they finally pulled into camp. By this time, everyone else was pretty much set up and starting to make dinner. She went off to get water, while Joan and I put up another bear bag rope. This time I threw one up and it was pretty sloppy. Instead of redoing it like we should of, we let our stomachs take over. So off we went to make some dinner. I was starving! As everyone was making/eating dinner (SHOE and Kelly filtered water)guess who night hikes with her headlamp on into camp. Mud Butt! YAY! She is in such a cheery mood, it’s hard not to smile when you hear her. The best part, she brought in everything you need to make S’Mores!!! Whoo hoo! I walk over to hug and say hello. While she is busy setting up her camp, I go and bear bag my food.

As we are enjoying the S’mores 🙂 and chit chatting around the campfire, Jen and her family hike in. Jen works at Mountain Crossings Outfitters and attempted to thru hike last year. After they set up, they start making dinner. Talk about a yummy dinner. SHOE and I looked at one another and she says, “we are doing that next time we’re in the Smoky’s” and believe me, we are SO doing that. Jen had marinated some steak, skewered it, and cooked it on the campfire. After a while, the fire started to die out and most of us called it a night. I didn’t realize how warm the fire had kept me until I started walking back to my hammock. I checked my thermometer and it said it was around 35-40 degrees. Chilly night! I slipped on my down vest, jumped into my warm hammock, and drifted off to sleep. I slept sooo good that night. The next morning I woke up around 6:30am and just laid in my warm hammock til I heard some of the others moving around. Stay tuned for tomorrows adventure. Til then, GET OUTDOORS!

Stay tuned for part 3!!

Georgia With the Dames- Part 1

Post written by one of our favorite Dames, Sweetpea!!

Once again I zipped down to Georgia for the Trail Dames annual backpack trip! After work on Friday I hopped in my car, and headed to Kelly’s cabin to meet up with the dames. I whirled up the mountain roads up to Helen GA and this time the weather was clear, crisp, and all around perfect for a backpacking trip. (If you’ve never been to Helen,GA it’s the cutest little Alpine village type town. It reminded me of a little ski resort in the Alps.) I called SHOE to let her know I was close by and she gives me directions to the cabin. Well, Kelly has three cabins and wouldn’t you know it, I went into the only empty cabin to wait for everyone. So typical of me. hahaha! Everyone else happened to be in the first cabin. SHOE came over to rescue me and then introduced me to everyone. I met Crystal and her dog Buddy, who will only be day hiking the first section with us, Kathy and Sunny (who is really into ultralight backpacking and gave me so gear tips), Kelly, who owns all three cabins, Lynn and Laura, (mother and daughter), and Diana, whom I met last year at the Hike Inn in GA. We chit chat a bit, but since I rolled in late, everyone was ready to go to bed. SHOE and I stayed up a while just catching up. We finally decide to call it a night around 10:45pm b/c the rest of the Dames were coming up at 7:30 in the morning. I pulled out my sleeping bag and stretched out on the couch for a good nights sleep. SHOE said I must of slept well b/c she could hear me snoring away. Oops 🙂

I woke up the next morning around 7am and started packing up my stuff when a new group of Dames walk in. Sundai, Nancy, and Joan drove up this morning. In total there will be 16 of us backpacking. (Me, SHOE, Kelly, Joan, Sundai, Nancy, Kathy, Crystal, April, Mudd Butt, Sunny, Diana, Lynn, Laura, Maggie, ) Everyone finally arrived at the cabins, (except for Mudd Butt, she had to work and was hiking in to our campsite later that evening.) we loaded up all the packs and shuffled three cars up to Tray Mt. Gap. The ride up Tray mountain was on a narrow, steep, gravely, dirt road with tons of pot holes, which made for an interesting drive. 🙂 We made it to the trail head, parked the cars, got everyone situated, took the obligatory “before” picture, and started our trek to Addison Gap. Only 6.2 miles away. Tune in tomorrow to continue our adventure! Til Next time GET OUTDOORS!!!

Stay tuned for part 2!!

Be Your Own Hero-Part 2

5 Steps to Being Your Own Hero- Part 2

From a blog posting on More Of Me To Love, for more info, visit www.moreofmetolove.com

 

 

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4. Compare lists- What do these people have in common?

    When you are done listing the wonderful traits of these people, look at them closely and see if there are any commonalities among them.  These are the qualities that you associate with heroism. You will start to see patterns emerge within these people.  Maybe a majority of them are adventurous.  Maybe many of them live honestly.  When you see these traits start to repeat themselves in more than one of your heroes, you know that you have found something that speaks to you on a deep level.  If you can find these qualities within yourself, you will be well on your way to seeing your own personal hero every time you look in the mirror.

5.   Put yourself in your heroes shoes

    Now is the time to find these qualities within you.  This is where it gets fun! First you will need to start by being honest about which qualities you already have, which ones are attainable through hard work, and which are probably never really going to happen.  

    For instance, I knew that I had kindness and compassion.  I also knew that finding integrity and courage within my self would be a struggle, but that I was capable of both.  These are things that all people are capable of.  

    However, no matter how much I looked up at them for their humor and community outreach, I did have to realize at some point that I was never going to be a Harlem Globetrotter. The point is, this wonderful body that I was given might not be suited to jumping hurdles or teaching gymnastics, but I can certainly adjust my goals and dreams to use the attributes that I do have.  

    Now, start looking for opportunities to act in accordance with your own ideals.  When these situations present themselves, think to your self, “What would my hero do?”

    Remember, a hero is defined by an action that he or she took. It is not a vague idea that occurs in someone’s mind.  Looking back on the lists in your journal, it was an action that caused you to look at each of those people and say, “I want to be like that”.   In each case, their heroism was embodied in an action.

Whether it is the grand gesture of a firefighter putting his life on the line, or the simple act of a woman refusing to take part in the vitriolic gossip around the bunko table, heroism lies in the actions we take daily.

    Finally, remember that being a hero isn’t easy.  If it were easy, everyone would be one!  When it gets hard or scary to act in accordance to the ideals you have set out in your Hero Journal, lean on your champions.  Use their courage as your own.  Through emulating them, you will find your own personal hero emerging in front of your eyes.  And then, don’t be surprised when someone tells you that you are their hero. 

    Who are your personal hero’s and why?  Comment below and tell us all about them…….

Be Your Own Hero-Part 1

This is a post originally written for and published by, More of Me To Love.  For more details, check www.moreofmetolove.com  

Kristy

5 Steps to Becoming   Your Own Hero

    I was sitting in a movie theater when the woman on the screen said ‘put on some skates…be your own hero’.  The simple statement caught me and I thought to myself, “Boy, she sure does make that sound easy”.  That was immediately followed by the realization that being your own hero really can be that easy.  Are you your own hero? We each have it in ourselves to be our own personal champion.   Becoming a person that you look up to…the person that you aspire to be… is possible once you know where to start.    

    1. Define ‘hero’- What exactly is a hero to you? 

A person that climbs mountains? 

A person that speaks up for someone smaller than himself?

Someone that makes you feel special and important?   

    To be something, you must first define it.  Start by creating a Hero Journal. Grab a notebook and write your own definition.  If you find it hard to delineate your own specific ideas at this point, don’t be surprised.  This characterization will change and grow with time.  You might find that what mattered to you last year isn’t important today.    Continue through the other steps and your own interpretation will start to emerge. The important thing here is to really focus on what heroism means to you.  When you have finished all of the steps, you will find that your own definition has begun to solidify and that you have a clear path to take towards becoming that person. 

    2. List your personal heroes

    Turn to a fresh page in your Hero Journal and list all of the people that you really look up to.  They can be friends, next door neighbors, or strangers that have randomly crossed your path. They don’t even have to be real.     

    While many of my heroes are personal friends, I also look up to Barbara Kingsolver, Frodo Baggins and Jimmy Carter.  While two of these are real people, I have never met them, so it is actually my idea of them that I look up to.  They all three might as well be fictional characters.  However, reality is not what is important here.  Traits that I aspire to are what are important.  Who else do you know that ate locally and organically for an entire year, finished a job despite months of pain and fear, and traded a life of fame for one of service?  Yes, I easily count all three of these among my heroes. 

    Take the time the put photos and quotes of your heroes in your journal. Cut pictures out of magazines and include drawings, writings and song lyrics. Anything that inspires heroism is fair game.

    3. Specify what makes them heroic?

    What ideals do these lives reflect and what do you dream of your own life saying?  Take your Hero Journal and put the name of each champion on the top of a page.  Then list all of the characteristics that cause you to look up to them.  Are they courageous?  Self-assured?  Compassionate?  There is no right or wrong answer here.  This is all about you and the characteristics you see in others that you find admirable.

    My heroes are brave.  John Wayne said that being brave is not about lack of fear, but about being scared and acting anyway.  Why does my friend Rena seem brave to me?  At the age of 41, she not only signed up to take an adult belly dancing class, but also danced in a public recital in front of 200 people. With no background in dance or performing, it had to be the scariest thing she has ever done.  However, she pulled her shoulders back, took a deep breath and began to dance.  She was wonderful.  And she made me want to be brave.

    My heroes are kind and self confident.  They know that one does not need to tear others down when trying to accomplish a goal, and they know that their own excellence is not lessened when they help someone less accomplished then themselves.  My friend Jan is the most amazing backpacker I know.  With over 2,600 miles under her belt, she is fast, experienced and completely capable.  I am pretty sure that she could actually leap mountains in a single bound. Yet, when she hikes with me, she never acts like I am slow or awkward.  She revels in the hike and makes me feel like we are complete equals on the trail.

I want to make others feel that same way.

    My heroes have integrity.   And for me, integrity is simple.  It is doing what you say you are going to do.  A few years ago, I went to Africa to do volunteer work and, like the others in my group, was very touched by the need there. We all spent hours discussing the ways we would continue to help this community once we came home. However, once we returned to the US, our old lives resumed and our plans fell to the side.  Except for Kristi’s.  She started an email campaign among her friends and five years later her small campaign has become a non-profit that raises thousands of dollars a year and is responsible for many young Tanzanians getting an education.   She did exactly what she said she was going to do.  I want to live a life of integrity.

To be continued………..

TD Backpacking- November 2009

This is a trip report from the Trail Dames fall backpacking trip written by our own SHOE.  Thanks, Melissa!!

Backpacking 2009

Finally…. back out in the woods. Starting back to work has really put a cramp into my hiking. But I finally made it out there.
We couldn’t have asked for a better weekend to hike. Not a cloud in site. Beautiful 60 degree weather during the day. Amazing.

We started at Tray Gap and ended up at Dick’s Creek Gap… a total of 12.2 miles. We camped at Addis Gap which was a perfect spot for our rather large group. There ended up being 18 and 1/2 at the gap. Jen from Mountain Crossings joined us with some of her family and there was a 6 month old in the group. That’s where the 1/2 comes in.

One of the coolest things of the trip was watching Jen cook steak over an open fire. I keep thinking that I can eat better while out in the woods. How much better can you get than steak and fresh veggies. I’ll be car camping in the Smokies soon and you can bet that I will be practicing in a controlled environment.

One of the most challenging parts of the trip was carrying extra weight. One of the hikers was carrying too much weight so I chose to help her out. I bet I was carrying almost 10 pounds extra which was pretty tough considerning my friend Crystal ran off with my lunch. I learned later that Buddy the wonder dog got eat it. NOTE: Always carry my own food.

=SHOE